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Massachusetts marriages still a go
The U.S. Supreme Court on Friday refused to hear a last-minute appeal to block the country's first state-sanctioned same-sex marriages from taking place on May 17 in Massachusetts, clearing the way for marriage licenses to be issued to gay and lesbian couples. Read the full story>>>
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NEWS FEATURE
Gay students wage battle to be heard
Administrators at a high school in Salt Lake City say they were only upholding their school’s dress code when they banned an antismoking T-shirt that features the slogan “Queers Kick Ash.” But the students have a different story.
By John Caldwell

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SMALL SCREEN
Island girl and Piggifer
It’s disco week on American Idol and Donna Summer honors all her gay fans by looking like a drag queen. But can Hawaii’s homegirl Jasmine and Miss Piggy/J. Lo love child Diana survive the onslaught of two divas beneath a giant disco ball?
By Q. Allan Brocka

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NEWS FEATURE
The Real Jail: Kansas City
Out Real World Miami star Dan Renzi tells all about his recent arrest for indecent exposure in an adult movie theater in an exclusive Advocate.com interview.
By Anderson Jones

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FIRST PERSON
My first time
Single and feeling blue, a young gay man recalls the flush and blush of his first crush—only to realize his memories are far from warm and fuzzy.
By Trent J. Koland

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FAMILY MATTERS
This price is right
An ordinary day takes on new meaning when this lesbian mom stops by the town clerk’s office to cross an unordinary errand off her list: paying for her civil marriage ceremony.
By Lisa Eisenbud

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Q & A
Mothers know best
Never know just what to say to your mom on Mother’s Day? Out author Taro Gold’s new book, The Tao of Mom, has 365 answers. In a brief Q&A, Gold offers a few more pearls of wisdom just for gays and lesbians.
By Bruce C. Steele

COMMENTARY
ImageVirginia is not for GLBT lovers
Virginia’s antigay legislature recently passed a law to keep gay and lesbian couples from sharing any of the benefits that should come with long-term partnership. Now the state’s only openly gay lawmaker speaks out against the move.
By Adam Ebbin

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THEATER REVIEW
Best friends forever!
Writer-performers Mindy Kaling and Brenda Withers skewer celebrity relationships in their off-Broadway hit, Matt & Ben, now onstage in Los Angeles. But will showbiz outsiders appreciate the show’s pop-culture lingo?
By Anderson Jones

NEWS FEATURE
Scenes from a gay Republican convention
President Bush’s endorsement of a proposed constitutional ban on same-sex marriage has the Log Cabin Republicans united against his move, but many at the organization’s national convention said they will still vote for him.
By John Caldwell

COMMENTARY
Beyond the marriage debate
In 1996, when John Kerry was one of the few U.S. senators to oppose the antigay federal Defense of Marriage Act, he wrote for The Advocate a passionate column on the civil rights struggle for gay and lesbian equality. That article is reprinted here.
By Sen. John F. Kerry

COMMENTARY
Youths break their silence
In Chicago for the national Day of Silence, the event’s founder wishes all gay and lesbian adults--who often think today’s kids are apathetic--could see how brave and motivated many LGBT youths really are. By Kevin Jennings, Executive Director, the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network


SMALL SCREEN
Queer eye for the Nazi guy
A new Cinemax documentary from Party Monster filmmakers Fenton Bailey and Randy Barbato explores the sexuality of Hitler. But can it make the case that the Führer was a fairy?
By Ryan MacDonald

FIRST PERSON
Not without my children
For this lesbian mother, a recent episode of NBC’s ER made the fear of losing her children dramatically real, and it underlined what the marriage fight is really about
By Allison F. Bauer

FUNNY UNCLE
Am I too old for this shirt?
At 49 and 11/12, our columnist is desperately seeking role models who are smartly stylish, uniquely self-expressive, and...of a certain age. Nominees include Calvin Klein, Ian McKellen, and...Jeff Stryker?
By Christopher Harrity

COMMENTARY
Curious George speaks
President Bush’s press conference left our columnist angry but also reassured that there’s light at the end of the tunnel for gay and lesbian Americans
By Charles Karel Bouley II

LET'S GET TO WORK
Stars and gripes
Our career coach offers advice to an aspiring astrologist who struggles with “normalcy” and a facilities manager who’s done with the dirty work.
By Ed Vladich

FIRST PERSON
Tears of elation and frustration
Thirty-one Advocate readers share their marriage stories from San Francisco, New Mexico, Vancouver, and beyond
By our readers

COMMENTARY
Thanks for coming out
The onslaught of gay weddings is the endpoint in a long process of overcoming the closet. Because only once you’re willing to stand up to being labeled a “fag” can you demand equal access to a rite as conservative as marriage.
By David Ehrenstein

BOOK EXCERPT
The case for gay marriage
In an excerpt from his new book, Gay Marriage: Why It Is Good for Gays, Good for Straights, and Good for America, a gay journalist makes his case for the importance of marriage both for society and for gays and lesbians.
By Jonathan Rauch

Q & A
Chrissy Gephardt on the front lines
The openly lesbian daughter of former presidential candidate Dick Gephardt, who will be helping to bring gay voters to the polls in 2004, talks frankly about coming out, whether she will marry her partner, and why she feels no ill will toward Mary Cheney.
By Chad Graham

COMMENTARY
Dear God, it's me...and I'm gay
A holy father from the Old Catholic Church answers readers’ questions and offers advice about dealing with homosexuality within the context of traditional Christianity.
By Archbishop Bruce J. Simpson, Benedictine Order of St. John the Beloved (an Old Catholic order)

COMMENTARY
Talking points on marriage, part 2
In the second of Advocate.com’s series of “talking points” to counter arguments against same-sex marriage, we take on everything from “marriage exists only for procreation” to “doesn’t traditional marriage need to be protected?” By Mike Rush Talking points on marriage, part 1
In the first of Advocate.com’s series of “talking points” to counter arguments against same-sex marriage, we take on “civil unions are just as good” and “are you saying that mothers are irrelevant?”
By Ryan James Kim

FIRST PERSON
A gay goody-two-shoes goes swinging
When an innocent young gay man from Canada accidentally winds up at a swingers party in Vegas, he finds he’s the least adventurous person in the room. And that was before the lap dance
By Josh Murray

EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW
Del and Phyllis get married
Longtime lesbian activists Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon talk about their lives before and after becoming the first same-sex couple to marry in San Francisco
By John Caldwell

STEELE BEARINGS
Scenes from a wedding
You’ve heard about the long lines, the rain, the mayor, the court decisions, the political fallout. In this account of his own San Francisco marriage, The Advocate’s editor in chief offers some glimpses of other revealing and intimate moments in an unprecedented point in history—and in his 17-year relationship.
By Bruce C. Steele

WELL WOMEN
Sex with someone you love
For the new year, the good doctor answers new questions about masturbation, herpes, sex toys, oral joys, and what happens when one partner loses her libido
By Susan Ball, M.D., MPH

THE INS & OUTS OF GAY SEX
Fear of sex
In his latest column, our gay-health specialist answers questions from a number of men whose problems are preventing them from having a healthy sex life, including an overriding fear of sexually transmitted diseases, impotence, ulcerative colitis, and a rare disease of the penis that’s not responding to treatment By Stephen E. Goldstone, MD 

ARCHIVES OF ADVOCATE.COM EXCLUSIVES
Archives for previous online reports, news stories, and commentaries are listed here.
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Everything’s coming out Rosie
Pro golfer Rosie Jones is coming out, keeping her friends, gaining endorsements, and playing her best. By Michele Kort    

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NEWS
Welcome to summer camp
Nicole Kidman and writer Paul Rudnick talk about remaking The Stepford Wives in an era when “traditional values” are scarier than ever.
By Alonso Duralde  
ARTS
Out in the Terry family
Randall Terry says his son’s coming-out was a betrayal, and he’s still determined to deny “special civil rights” to gays.
By Benjamin Ryan
Angels for gay inmates

Thanks to two straight deputies, gay inmates in the L.A. County jail have a chance to get an education and learn how to stay out of prison.
By Richard Andreoli
Legislative long shot
A daring law to legalize gay weddings clears a legislative hurdle in California. Will other states follow suit?
By Mike Hudson
Everything’s coming out Rosie
Pro golfer Rosie Jones is coming out, keeping her friends, gaining endorsements, and playing her best.
By Michele Kort     
 
ARTS
Heart still burns
Larry Kramer’s classic AIDS play The Normal Heart, revived in New York 20 years to the day after its opening, still cuts deep. A talk with leading men Raúl Esparza and Billy Warlock.
By Michael Giltz
Lowdown on the down low

J.L. King discusses his new book about African-American men seeking gay sex “on the down low.”
By Anderson Jones  
 
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COLUMNS
A bisexual mom comes out
My Perspective guest columnist
Mary Joslin tells of finally accepting and being open about her orientation in the light of pending legislation that could create an even more hostile environment for GLBT folk.
Hatred brings us together

Generation Q columnist and lesbian journalist
Richael Maile finds common ground with an antigay African-American classmate after the two discuss hate crimes and second-class citizenship.
Guys like Fred

Last Word guest columnist and stand-up comic
Jim David contrasts his experience as an out gay urban dweller with that of an isolated small-town gay man who is out to no one—except for the fleeting acquaintances he makes at the interstate rest stop.   
THE ADVOCATE POLL
Backlash
Will pro-gay marriage bills cause even greater backlash against equal marriage rights?

 
HEADLINESHEADLINES
News

U.S. Supreme Court refuses to block Massachusetts marriages
Gay couples in Massachusetts nervously anticipate marriage
Republicans argue same-sex marriage would cost govt. billions
Oregon court advances proposed marriage ban initiative
Bishop says pro-gay Catholic voters must repent
California's same-sex marriage bill on hold
City of San Jose sued for recognizing same-sex marriages
Entertainment

Elton John's new album may surface in November
Fox raises hackles with Seriously, Dude, I'm Gay
Health

Bush names new ONAP director
Report says government should pay for all AIDS care for low-income families
Senators ask FTC official to testify at Norvir hearing
Massachusetts health officials ask for $4.2 million for AIDS drug program
Canada passes law to make cheap AIDS drugs
Chilean health official fired over condom giveaway
Events

Superstar in a Housedress premieres May 5-18 at New York's Film Forum
Anthony Rapp stars in Gompers in Pittsburgh, May 6-30
Cahun and Moore exhibit in New York, May 7-28
Flaming Film Festival in Minneapolis May 12-16
Works by out artist Tim Tate on display in Bethesda, Md., May 14-June 8
Drag artist John Kelly sings Joni Mitchell at New York's Fez, May 14-22
Slava Mogutin photos on display in NYC through May 15
NGLTF launches night of marriage equality on May 16
All-female theater company produces School for Scandal in NYC through May 16
Varla Jean Merman's Under a Big Top in Los Angeles through May 16
San Francisco AIDS Candlelight Vigil set for May 16
Matt & Ben in L.A. with original cast through May 16
Gay marriage forum in Trenton, N.J., May 17
San Francisco GLBT leaders commemorate Massachusetts marriages May 17
New York LGBT Center to offer cancer program on May 18
Panel discussion of the politics of gay marriage held in Encino, May 18
HIV Vaccine Awareness Day set for May 18
L.A. groups to hold HIV Vaccine Awareness Day forum May 18
AIDS rally planned for May 20 in Washington, D.C.
L.A. Forum on HIV/AIDS in the African-American community, May 21
"Groove in the Grove" AIDS event in San Francisco May 21-22
Celebration Theatre presents Hedwig and the Angry Inch and The Laramie Project through May 23
"Robert Indiana: Peace Paintings" on display in NYC through May 29
Revival of Larry Kramer's The Normal Heart in New York through May 30
Pierre et Gilles exhibition at the Seoul Museum of Art through May 31
West Hollywood's Abbey to host marriage ceremonies on June 1
Dance Divas fund-raiser in Chicago, June 3
"Embrace!" fund-raiser for Matthew Shepard Foundation, June 14 in Miami Beach
Family Pride Coalition Weekend at Walt Disney World in Orlando, Fla., June 17-20
Micah Barnes performs Trash Circus in Santa Monica, June 18-19
"The Hot House: Three Plays in Rep" onstage in San Francisco through June 20
Museum of TV and Radio examines the history of gays on TV, through June 27
L.A. black gay pride set for July 1-4

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