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Romney reveals plan to halt marriages
Massachusetts governor Mitt Romney said Thursday that he will seek emergency legislation aimed at blocking the issuance of marriage licenses to same-sex couples, scheduled now to begin on May 17. Read the full story>>>
NEWS NEWS
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FIRST PERSON
Not without my children
For this lesbian mother, a recent episode of NBC’s ER made the fear of losing her children dramatically real, and it underlined what the marriage fight is really about
By Allison F. Bauer

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FUNNY UNCLE
Am I too old for this shirt?
At 49 and 11/12, our columnist is desperately seeking role models who are smartly stylish, uniquely self-expressive, and...of a certain age. Nominees include Calvin Klein, Ian McKellen, and...Jeff Stryker?
By Christopher Harrity

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COMMENTARY
Curious George speaks
President Bush’s press conference left our columnist angry but also reassured that there’s light at the end of the tunnel for gay and lesbian Americans

By Charles Karel Bouley II


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LET'S GET TO WORK
Stars and gripes
Our career coach offers advice to an aspiring astrologist who struggles with “normalcy” and a facilities manager who’s done with the dirty work.
By Ed Vladich

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FIRST PERSON
Tears of elation and frustration
Thirty-one Advocate readers share their marriage stories from San Francisco, New Mexico, Vancouver, and beyond

By our readers


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SMALL SCREEN
…and Sir Elton makes 10!
Our obsessed American Idol watcher recaps what he dubs “the gayest episode since first season,” featuring Elton John searching for kind words to say about the worst singers. But aren’t unkind words more fun?
By Q. Allan Brocka

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COMMENTARY
Thanks for coming out
The onslaught of gay weddings is the endpoint in a long process of overcoming the closet. Because only once you’re willing to stand up to being labeled a “fag” can you demand equal access to a rite as conservative as marriage.
By David Ehrenstein

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BOOK EXCERPT
The case for gay marriage
In an excerpt from his new book, Gay Marriage: Why It Is Good for Gays, Good for Straights, and Good for America, a gay journalist makes his case for the importance of marriage both for society and for gays and lesbians.
By Jonathan Rauch

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Q & A
Chrissy Gephardt on the front lines
The openly lesbian daughter of former presidential candidate Dick Gephardt, who will be helping to bring gay voters to the polls in 2004, talks frankly about coming out, whether she will marry her partner, and why she feels no ill will toward Mary Cheney.
By Chad Graham

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COMMENTARY
Dear God, it's me...and I'm gay
A holy father from the Old Catholic Church answers readers’ questions and offers advice about dealing with homosexuality within the context of traditional Christianity.
By Archbishop Bruce J. Simpson, Benedictine Order of St. John the Beloved (an Old Catholic order)

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COMMENTARY
Talking points on marriage, part 2
In the second of Advocate.com’s series of “talking points” to counter arguments against same-sex marriage, we take on everything from “marriage exists only for procreation” to “doesn’t traditional marriage need to be protected?” By Mike Rush

Talking points on marriage, part 1
In the first of Advocate.com’s series of “talking points” to counter arguments against same-sex marriage, we take on “civil unions are just as good” and “are you saying that mothers are irrelevant?”
By Ryan James Kim

FIRST PERSON
Wedding whiplash
From falling in love with another girl at age 12, through decades of activism and leadership on GLBT and feminist issues, to “Sadie Married Lady” on the steps of San Francisco’s City Hall—it’s all been quite a head rush for this newlywed.
By Torie Osborn

FIRST PERSON
Dear family: why marriage matters to me
A gay son writes to his straight family members and friends about the pain of being treated like a second-class citizen

By John Caldwell

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FAMILY MATTERS
A new perspective on marriage
The battle for equal marriage rights for gay families can be an emotional roller coaster, but this lesbian mom has found that there are grueling challenges in day-to-day life that help keep her anchored.
By Lisa Eisenbud

COMMENTARY
Is gay the new black?
Is permitting gay marriage such a threat to American society that it needs a constitutional restriction? Or have gays just replaced blacks as the minority community that is openly discriminated against?
By c.e. adams

COMMENTARY
Rx: Marriage
What are the medical benefits of equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians? A California physician predicts weddings could usher in improved self-esteem, decreased self-destructive behaviors, clearer priorities, and better health.
By Gary Cohan, M.D., FACP

COMMENTARY
The problem with "activist judges"
So the man who sits in the Oval Office because of a court decision has declared war on courts that issue decisions he disagrees with. Does he understand nothing about the Constitution and the judicial system that he swore to God he would uphold?
By Sean Cahill, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute

FIRST PERSON
A gay goody-two-shoes goes swinging
When an innocent young gay man from Canada accidentally winds up at a swingers party in Vegas, he finds he’s the least adventurous person in the room. And that was before the lap dance
By Josh Murray

COMMENTARY
The president's assault on gay youth
Children will listen. Bush’s message in supporting a discriminatory antigay constitutional amendment was clear: Gay people are not part of the American family. So now it’s open season on gays and lesbians—particularly on gay and lesbian youth, who are the most vulnerable. Violence and death will surely follow.
By John D. Moore

COMMENTARY
Bush resigns
That’s what he did on February 24, right? Because clearly the America created by our Constitution is not the country George W. Bush wants to preserve and protect. He just wants to be President of the United States of Americans He Likes.
By Jordan Roth

COMMENTARY
Wolves in sheep’s clothing will still tear you apart
For any gay Republican who has missed the news in the past few weeks, here’s a bulletin: The Republican Party, in the form of the president of the United States, thinks you’re a second-class citizen, and they’d like to write that into the U.S. Constitution. Here’s one gay non-Republican who’s had just about enough of the “changing the party from the inside” mantra. It isn’t working.
By Charles Karel Bouley II

EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW
Del and Phyllis get married
Longtime lesbian activists Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon talk about their lives before and after becoming the first same-sex couple to marry in San Francisco
By John Caldwell

STEELE BEARINGS
Scenes from a wedding
You’ve heard about the long lines, the rain, the mayor, the court decisions, the political fallout. In this account of his own San Francisco marriage, The Advocate’s editor in chief offers some glimpses of other revealing and intimate moments in an unprecedented point in history—and in his 17-year relationship.
By Bruce C. Steele

WELL WOMEN
Sex with someone you love
For the new year, the good doctor answers new questions about masturbation, herpes, sex toys, oral joys, and what happens when one partner loses her libido
By Susan Ball, M.D., MPH

THE INS & OUTS OF GAY SEX
Fear of sex
In his latest column, our gay-health specialist answers questions from a number of men whose problems are preventing them from having a healthy sex life, including an overriding fear of sexually transmitted diseases, impotence, ulcerative colitis, and a rare disease of the penis that’s not responding to treatment By Stephen E. Goldstone, MD 

ARCHIVES OF ADVOCATE.COM EXCLUSIVES
Archives for previous online reports, news stories, and commentaries are listed here.
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Princess in a necktie
Generation Q guest columnist Genya Shimkin reaches a new level of understanding with her father when he shows her how to tie a necktie for her prom.     

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NEWS
Stars speak out against the Federal Marriage Amendment
Forty-two artists speak out for their gay fans and against President Bush’s push to write discrimination into the U.S. Constitution.
By Anne Stockwell & Lawrence Ferber  
ARTS
Without his father’s blessing
His lawmaker dad may be California’s leading opponent of equal rights for gays, but that didn’t stop David Knight from getting married in San Francisco. By Jay Blotcher
Loud opposition, quiet support

In the face of a noisy antigay crusade, a few Democrats bravely back same-sex marriage. Others, fearing political costs, keep their support behind closed doors. By Jeremy Quittner & Chad Graham  
  
 
ARTS
Nia exposed!
My Big Fat Greek Wedding
’s indie queen is back...in a corset! Nia Vardalos dishes with costar Alec Mapa about her new “dinner theater drag” comedy Connie and Carla.
By Alonso Duralde 
Go Junior! Go Senior!

Half-gay Danish dance duo Junior Senior continues to sweep America off its feet.
By Vincent Lopez 
Why Judy matters

April is all about Judy Garland this year, with Turner Classic Movies featuring her films all month and Warner Home Video issuing five of her classic films on DVD—most notably Meet Me in St. Louis, with extras including a new introduction by Liza Minnelli. But isn’t Garland a preoccupation of gay generations past? Should younger gay men care?
Dave White reflects on his own journey to Judy.  
 
REVIEW ARCHIVES
BOOK REVIEW ARCHIVES
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VIDEO/DVD REVIEW ARCHIVES

COLUMNS
Only in Oregon
My Perspective guest columnist and activist
Terry Bean traces his long history with the same-sex marriage movement in Oregon, the only state in which gay and lesbian couples are still getting married. 
The black divide
African-Americans who refuse to support equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians are shoving their own history back into the closet.
By David Ehrenstein 
Princess in a necktie

Generation Q guest columnist
Genya Shimkin reaches a new level of understanding with her father when he shows her how to tie a necktie for her prom. 
Why I’m not a bear

Despite possessing all the trappings of the typical bear, Left Hook columnist
Richard Goldstein is past wanting to be anyone’s fetish.    
THE ADVOCATE POLL
Quiet support
Do you believe many politicians privately support same-sex marriage but are afraid to say so publicly?

 
HEADLINES
News

Massachusetts governor makes his move to block marriages
Trial of Gwen Araujo's accused killers begins
High court considers invalidating San Francisco marriages
Texas candidate loses after cross-dressing photos surface
Ohio bishop who supported gay clergyman is barred from area churches
Lutheran congregations appoint openly gay pastors
Longtime gay rights attorney Lee Walker dies
Children of gay parents doing just fine
Singapore halts activities of gay rights groups
Entertainment

Bryan Fuller signs two-year deal with 20th Century Fox TV
Oprah discusses HIV/AIDS and life on the "down low" April 16
Health

FRC president says same-sex marriage will lead to health care crisis
Maryland hospital's suspect lab had received highest rating
Fuzeon to become widely available
Rare rule applied in medical marijuana case
Arkansas plans ADAP waiting list
Events

Oscar-nominated shorts screening in L.A. through April 15
DontAmend.com organizes marriage rights protests, April 15
Gay seniors have Stories to Tell in L.A., April 15-17
Applications for Asian-Pacific Islander leadership institute due April 16
Log Cabin Republicans national convention in Palm Springs, April 16-18
Nordstrom Lesbian Fashion Show fund-raiser in San Francisco, April 17
L.A. Gay and Lesbian Center to host star-studded Women's Night, April 17
New York City forum on same-sex marriage, April 19
National Day of Silence scheduled for April 21
Latina lesbian health summit to be held April 22-25 in Washington, D.C.
Activists plan Norvir protest on April 23 in Illinois
Flaming Iguanas onstage in San Francisco through April 24
Mommie Queerest onstage in Los Angeles through April 25
Transgender Lobby Days, April 29-30
Janis Ian on tour through April 30
AIDS Foundation of Chicago hosts annual gala, May 1
RainbowWedding
Network.com holds same-sex wedding expo in Massachusetts, May 2

Sin: A Cardinal Deposed extended in Chicago through May 12
Slava Mogutin photos on display in NYC through May 15
NGLTF launches night of marriage equality on May 16
Matt & Ben in L.A. with original cast through May 16
Celebration Theatre presents Hedwig and the Angry Inch and The Laramie Project through May 23
Pierre et Gilles exhibition at the Seoul Museum of Art through May 31
West Hollywood's Abbey to host marriage ceremonies on June 1
Dance Divas celebrate with "evening of illusion" June 3
Family Pride Coalition Weekend at Walt Disney World in Orlando, Fla., June 17-20
Museum of TV and Radio examines the history of gays on TV, through June 27
Paul Rudnick's Valhalla onstage in NYC for extended run

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